I recently come to the realization that I am a bona-fide people-pleaser. For me people-pleasing originates from guilt and fear of disappointing others.
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Posts regarding a personal experience or memory that doesn’t fit in a particular category.
My Work is Not Essential, but I am
I am working from home right now. That must mean I am not an essential worker. I would say I have to agree with that assessment.
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Lacking Courage as a Source of Shame
A major regret in my life is failing someone I was meant to mentor because of a lack of courage. Not meeting that challenge has become a source of shame.
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Living with Self Harm Scars
I’m a 43 year old man and it’s been over 20 years since I last cut myself with a knife. Although the cuts on my arms and legs had healed since, it would be many years before the rest of me healed.
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Developing a Growth Mindset at Work
I had been in the bad habit of running away from problems at work. Turning towards challenges has helped me develop a growth mindset at work.
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Unboxing Memories of My Father
A few days ago, I decided to spend a day clearing greeting cards, letters, and photos that have been taking up space. I went through all the letters and greeting cards sent to me over the years. I also went through all the old photos I had taken when I was a child.
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A Dream Deferred
I remember the moment I surrendered my aptitude for feeling free. I had a dream deferred when I graduated college and took a full time job I was expected to take.
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